http://www.codemonkeygirl.com big warm fuzzy secret heart Thu, 05 Aug 2010 20:17:01 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Oh God or whomever created us all... who am I? Here's what I do know: I wonder without aim but yet I don't feel aimless. I know what I don't want yet what I do want is still a mystery. I can love intensely yet love is always just out of reach. I am ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=440 Basically, these are the things I don't believe in anymore: 1. Things, substances and even people will make me happy This is a tricky one because this one can still sneak up on you if you're not paying attention and freak the shit out of you. 2. Mistakes If you believe that something you've ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=436 So many things have been on my mind these days. People, places, passion, love, hate, career, kids, future, present, past, friends, happiness. What's important? I've had several conversations with friends lately about passion and the consensus is that the way to happiness is to have passions in your life. To find ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=422 I've noticed that as I shed layers of crap that has weighed me down for too long, I become more and more passionate about all kinds of things. This is exactly why we must nurture ourselves before we can do anything worth while in this life, like take care of ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=407 You want the truth about how to be happy? Be stupid. Think stupid. Act stupid. Create stupid. Do stupid. Something I definitely need to grasp... again. (Not that I'm ubersmart, I just haven't done anything stupid in a long time) Here's what I'm talking about: Brilliant. http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=397 I've been thinking lately that it is of the utmost importance to have passions in your life. As a matter of fact, I don't know how people exist without at least one passion that keeps them going. I think most people accomplish this by finding someone that they are passionate ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=393 Sometimes I feel so lazy living in America. In most cities we've set it up where we don't have to make much of an effort to do anything. We have grocery stores filled with every possible thing we might need and more. One stop shopping. We can get anything else ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=361 My stepdad told me once the most valuable thing a woman can have is her independence. I don't just mean financially, I mean mentally and emotionally, too. If you are truly independent, you don't feel insecure. You have everything you need so you don't feel needy. You can find anything ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=347 I tend to analyze everything to death. I'm not sure why, but I pick apart everyone and everything around me. Maybe because I want to learn everything I can out of a situation or a person?? The problem with this is that when I talk to people I'm close to, ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=340 As hard as it will be for me because I feel so much, I will never put my happines in the hands of another person. That's a good thing because love is not needing someone in your life, it's wanting someone in your life. You can be the only person ... http://www.codemonkeygirl.com/?p=338